Comments on: The Realization that Changed Everything https://DefytheBox.com/clearing-the-way/the-realization-that-changed-everything/ Learn how to eliminate competition, stand out and shine, and make more money by flying your freak flag high and proud. Sat, 09 Jun 2012 20:18:11 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Jessica https://DefytheBox.com/clearing-the-way/the-realization-that-changed-everything/comment-page-1/#comment-5152 Jessica Sat, 09 Jun 2012 20:18:11 +0000 https://DefytheBox.com/?p=5807#comment-5152 Leah, this really struck a chord with me. I had a moment recently -- an entire half-day with NOTHING to do. No kids. No husband. No commitments -- just completely open time with no obligations or plans. I COULD NOT FIGURE OUT WHAT TO DO WITH MYSELF. How odd is that? All week, I can think of a million things I'd do with a few hours to myself, but when I got them, I settled and aimed small, as you were saying. Your post has me now dedicated to noticing what I truly enjoy and want to do with my time. xoxo (Hmmm -- imagine what the class could do for me!!) Leah, this really struck a chord with me. I had a moment recently — an entire half-day with NOTHING to do. No kids. No husband. No commitments — just completely open time with no obligations or plans. I COULD NOT FIGURE OUT WHAT TO DO WITH MYSELF. How odd is that? All week, I can think of a million things I’d do with a few hours to myself, but when I got them, I settled and aimed small, as you were saying. Your post has me now dedicated to noticing what I truly enjoy and want to do with my time. xoxo (Hmmm — imagine what the class could do for me!!)
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]]> By: Michelle https://DefytheBox.com/clearing-the-way/the-realization-that-changed-everything/comment-page-1/#comment-5150 Michelle Fri, 08 Jun 2012 19:54:08 +0000 https://DefytheBox.com/?p=5807#comment-5150 Self-sabotage is a nasty little bugger - especially when it's unconscious! Like you, I try to pay very close attention to my inner dialogue...especially phrases like "I can't have that" or "I can't do that". Those are usually the keys to where I'm playing small. Self-sabotage is a nasty little bugger – especially when it’s unconscious! Like you, I try to pay very close attention to my inner dialogue…especially phrases like “I can’t have that” or “I can’t do that”. Those are usually the keys to where I’m playing small.
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]]> By: Marita Rahlenbeck https://DefytheBox.com/clearing-the-way/the-realization-that-changed-everything/comment-page-1/#comment-5148 Marita Rahlenbeck Fri, 08 Jun 2012 02:05:59 +0000 https://DefytheBox.com/?p=5807#comment-5148 It takes so much courage to be vulnerable. Kudos to you for sharing this important learning with the world. May you be blessed in like kind for this alone. Why is it we just aim so small? Breaking that which is embedded within us like that does indeed take courage, which you've shown us, and it takes awareness, like you've shown us too. Then it takes action....which you've shown us. You are a great example! Thank you. It takes so much courage to be vulnerable. Kudos to you for sharing this important learning with the world. May you be blessed in like kind for this alone.

Why is it we just aim so small? Breaking that which is embedded within us like that does indeed take courage, which you’ve shown us, and it takes awareness, like you’ve shown us too. Then it takes action….which you’ve shown us. You are a great example! Thank you.
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]]> By: Hilary Parry | Tarot by Hilary https://DefytheBox.com/clearing-the-way/the-realization-that-changed-everything/comment-page-1/#comment-5147 Hilary Parry | Tarot by Hilary Thu, 07 Jun 2012 02:47:47 +0000 https://DefytheBox.com/?p=5807#comment-5147 Wow. Just reading that realization hit me in the gut. How many of us settle for the "wiggle room" instead of the screaming from the mountains "I deserve this!" kind of self-love that wiggles our toesies? Even the very word "settling" causes all sorts of unpleasant connotations. Which is why I'm trying to eliminate it from my vocabulary altogether. There is nothing worse than feeling stagnant... but beyond that stagnation is the moment where you release and break free. Awesome post! Wow. Just reading that realization hit me in the gut. How many of us settle for the “wiggle room” instead of the screaming from the mountains “I deserve this!” kind of self-love that wiggles our toesies?

Even the very word “settling” causes all sorts of unpleasant connotations. Which is why I’m trying to eliminate it from my vocabulary altogether. There is nothing worse than feeling stagnant… but beyond that stagnation is the moment where you release and break free.

Awesome post!
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]]> By: Patty Tanji https://DefytheBox.com/clearing-the-way/the-realization-that-changed-everything/comment-page-1/#comment-5145 Patty Tanji Wed, 06 Jun 2012 22:16:29 +0000 https://DefytheBox.com/?p=5807#comment-5145 Very inspiring! Thanks for sharing your experience. The theme of settling or not living big enters my life frequently. Not asking for enough money, giving my time and talent away for free. My relationships are rock solid and from there I will build my empire. So glad everything was turned around for you. I wish you well screaming your story from the rooftops for everyone to hear. Blessings, Patty Very inspiring! Thanks for sharing your experience. The theme of settling or not living big enters my life frequently. Not asking for enough money, giving my time and talent away for free. My relationships are rock solid and from there I will build my empire. So glad everything was turned around for you. I wish you well screaming your story from the rooftops for everyone to hear. Blessings, Patty
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