The surest way to bring more juicy goodness into your life is
by deepening your own relationship with YOU.

This is the most important connection that you can create.

Otherwise, how do you know what brings you happiness, meaning
and success?

This is trickier than it may sound for many people, especially the
freaky folks.

We live in a society where there are lots of expectations and
pre-packaged beliefs around how we are ‘supposed’ to live, and
who we are ‘supposed’ to be in this world.

When you do not fit into that mold,it is easy to feel like there
is something wrong with you, and you begin to feel unworthy,
undeserving, resentful, and a whole lot of other emotions that
feels yucky.

It is really easy to start making yourself wrong for being different.

The worst part is that you tend to settle for whatever comes your
way because you  think that you can’t have anything else.

You are so busy trying to be something that you are not,
there is no space to ask yourself :

“What would feel good to me?”
or

“What works in MY life?”.

These questions are the key to bringing in more Juicy Goodness.

I know this sounds simple, and it is on one level,
but I also recognize that it can be very difficult to do.
So many people never learned how to ask themselves these
questions on a regular basis.

When we are young we set our
course for who think we are supposed to be in the world.
This course is not necessarily based on who we are, but rather
who we think we should be.

So we spend our time trying to force ourselves in to a life that
does not fit, rather than exploring and discovering who we really are,
and what feels good to us. We end up in jobs that are dull,
and meaningless, in relationships that feel crappy,
and generally feeling unsatisfied.

In order to make ourselves feel better, we shop, eat,
have sex with the wrong people, read self help books,
and usually blame everyone else for our misery.

We spend our time looking outside ourselves for the solution,
when it is right there inside of us waiting to be discovered.

You are the only one who knows what is right for you.

The key is being committed to deepening your relationship with yourself.

How do you do that?

Make a commitment to knowing yourself better.
Get in the habit of asking yourself some of these key questions:

“What makes ME happy?

“What already works for me and feels good in my life?”

“What do I enjoy doing?”

“What do I want from _________________?”
( my career, relationship, health, sexuality, or any given situation)

“How do I want to feel when I _______________?”
(Am at work, in relationship, walk down the street, anything that you do)

“What would feel good to me right now?”

If you really want to get intimate with yourself, whenever something
or someone is bothering you and making you feel upset, irritated or
generally uncomfortable, ask yourself:

“What about this is making me feel uncomfortable?”.

Listen to the answers and go out and use that information to create a
life that is designed to suit your unique style.

Surround yourself with the people and things that support your happiness.

Nurture the relationship with yourself as if you were your favorite lover.

Give yourself everything you need to be happy and feel great.

You will be surprised at how easy it becomes once you get in the habit
of asking yourself what you need.

As an extra bonus you will discover
that all the people around you will benefit from your happiness.
Soon enough you will all be surrounded by all the Juicy Goodness
that life has to offer.

Does this sound doable to you?