Archive for behavior patterns
Making Your Own Rules (my first video blog!)
Posted by: | CommentsToday I want to continue the conversation about rules.
I decided that I would play around with my IMovie software and make a video for you.
This is what I came up with. I hope that you enjoy it.
( The date for the class mentioned in this video has been changed to March 4th at 12:30-1:30 PM EST get more info. about it here )
Hey you….Child of the Universe…this is for you….
Posted by: | CommentsI found this very inspiring today.
“Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle wit yourself. You are a child of the Universe, no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here. And weather or not it is clear to you, no doubt the Universe is unfolding as it should,”
~ Max Ehrmann
I wonder if there is any places where you might be gentler with yourself on your journey and perhaps allow yourself, and the universe, a bit more time to create what you desire ?
Talking about Coaching with my Superstar Client
Posted by: | CommentsAdrienne is a dream client. She is hip, cool, fun , and full of great ideas. I have no doubt that she is going to create everything she desires in her life. One of her many cool offerings is a U-Tube show called Everyday Abundance. She rocks it out ! As part of her process she wanted to make a video about our work and share it with her audience. Here it is. I hope you enjoy it!
My Happiness Depends on ME
Posted by: | CommentsTell everyone you know: “My happiness depends on me, so you’re off the hook.” And then demonstrate it. Be happy, no matter what they’re doing. Practice feeling good, no matter what. And before you know it, you will not give anyone else responsibility for the way you feel — and then, you’ll love them all. Because the only reason you don’t love them, is because you’re using them as your excuse to not feel good.
— Abraham
I love this !
I have been practicing this a lot lately.
I find that it can be challenging in my relationship.
I keep noticing that some of the language I use puts my partner as the cause of my happiness.
Statements such as: You made my day, you are making me very happy, It makes me happy when you________.
I have started shifting it a bit when I catch myself.
I will say: You are greatly adding to my happiness.
I am also noticing that it puts the responsibility to be happy back on me.
Boy does it make things easier for both of us!
Listen to DTB Radio Episode 3: Making Your Own Rules For Life
Posted by: | CommentsThis is a wonderful discussion around how other peoples rules become part of our lives from the get go, and how that conditions us to follow other peoples rules throughout our lives. We then explored different ways to determine if it is time for some new rules in your life, and if so, how do you go about determining what works for you.
