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The Realization that Changed Everything
Posted by: | CommentsThis was a big turning point for me……….
I was feeling stuck, worried about money and frustrated that my lover wouldn’t commit to living together. I was feeling stagnant and cranky about it so I got on the phone with my favorite coach of all time and proceeded to tell him that there were a few areas of my life that weren’t feeling that great to me. I wasn’t making enough money in my business and my lover didn’t want the same things from our relationship as I did. Everything was OK besides that.
“As long as I don’t think about these things I’m good, but then something happens and I get lost in feeling bad about my lover not wanting to live together and how I’m just scraping by each month and I get stressed out and start feeling bad”
“I just need some wiggle room! I don’t want to feel like I’m settling.”
His response knocked the wind out of me for a minute.
“You don’t believe you can have it”
There was a long silence on my end as I let those words settle in. Then I realized that it was true! On some level I didn’t truly believe that I could have the relationship, business, money, and life that I truly wanted.
I wasn’t allowing myself to dream big and look for other solutions that would open up the way for everything that I wanted because I was protecting myself from my desires. I was thinking small and playing small and willing to settle for “wiggle room” rather than going big and opening up the way for something magnificent to come in.
That conversation changed everything for me.
I started noticing all the places I was aiming small and settling because I doubted I could have what I wanted. I gave myself permission to dream big and get specific about what I desired in my life. And my life changed drastically for the better. I ditched my old boyfriend and found myself someone who wanted the same things that I did. I changed the way I was doing business and made more money. I upped my game and expanded into the luscious life I wanted to live.
Now my life is full of all kinds of juicy goodness and I’m passionate about helping you create the same thing too!
It breaks my heart when I talk to women who are settling for unsatisfying lives. They’re bored, frustrated and uninspired about some aspect of their work, relationships, or life and find themselves settling for whatever everyone else is having, and afraid to ask for what they really want.
When I ask them what they want their response is-“I don’t know”.
Every time I hear this, it activates the coach in me. Once we dig in it becomes apparent that they do know what they want- they’re just afraid to claim it!!
I know that life is full of juicy goodness and I want YOU to give yourself permission to claim it!
That is why I have teamed up with my dear friend Kelle Sparta to create an exciting new class starting in July called Unleash Yourself! 30 Days to Luscious Freedom. This class will have you shouting “ I Love My Life” from the roof tops! There is room for 30 Luscious Ladies to join us on this fun and transformational adventure (sorry guys).
If you are tired of settling and are ready to start living a luscious life of your own – email me and I will fill you in on the class details. Don’t delay if you want to get in on the crazy good early bird pricing that ends June 10th.
I’d love to have you join us!!
Do you ever doubt that you are on the right path?
Posted by: | CommentsRecently, I was having a conversation with someone around this very
subject. He was wondering if he was on the right path because he
was not getting the business that he needed to keep moving forward.
His business had dropped off significantly over the past few years
due to the economy and other trends in his field. He’s been living
off his savings lately and was considering going out and getting
another job, but he did not want to. He loves his work and the idea
of giving it up and doing something else was painful.
We talked about his situation for awhile, and it became very clear
that he was doing exactly what he is meant to be doing, but his
fear and doubt were stopping him from putting himself out there in
bold new ways in order to attract business.
His energy was used up by questioning his self worth and he did
not trust in his ability to make it work. As things got tougher and
tougher, the fearful voice in his head got louder and his
self-doubt grew. Every unsuccessful offer became an opportunity for
that voice to say:”I told you so.”
Have you ever felt that way?
I sure have!
I have stood chest deep in my fear around not making enough money,
and no one wanting what I am offering. My fear drained my energy
and caused me to make a bunch of half-assed attempts to offer my
services. I was so afraid of being rejected; I did not really even
try to put myself out there. Of course no one hired me, and I could
hear my fear whispering in my ear: “I told you so”.
So what did I do?
I learned how to kick-fears ass so that it no longer has power over me.
I learned how to acknowledge, explore and replace my fear with thoughts about what I wanted in my life.
You can read more about how I did this in this blog post.
Once I did this, I was able to own that I was on the right path and
I was 100% committed to making it work. I began to show up fully in
my business and it became much easier to stretch myself and try new
things to stand out from the crowd. Failure is not an option for me.
My questions to your are:
What would be possible if fear was not controlling you anymore?
What would you try?
How would you show up in your business and your life?
Share your answers in the comments below!
Thought for the Day: Where is your attention flowing ?
Posted by: | CommentsLaw of Attraction 101: What you focus on expands into your reality.
Simple enough.
Most people are spending their time focusing energy on what they do not want and what is not working for them. They are very busy trying to fix it or are spending a lot of time and energy pushing against what they do not want.
In a way this is CRAZY! You are amplifying the energy of what you do NOT WANT by doing this. Every time you call up your friend and tell the story about how your job sucks, or you don’t have enough money, or how your partner never does the dishes you are essentially telling the Universe that you want more of that. ( joining support groups and online chat forums about what you do not want is amplifying the energy too.)
You want something to be different….focus your energy on how you want it to be.
Re-Write your story so that it has the outcome that you desire.
Call your friends up and tell the story of all the goodness that you see and will have in your life.
Talk about the things you are thankful for.
Join groups that support and talk about what you are wanting to create or wanting more of.
So…where is your attention flowing????
