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Your biggest obstacle to creating a Kick-Ass Life
Posted by: | CommentsOne of the biggest obstacles that I see for non-conforming souls is a belief that they hold deep down inside of themselves. It sabotages all their efforts and is what makes them give up once the going gets tough.
Can you guess what this belief is?
It’s the belief that they can’t pull it off. Somewhere along the line they were taught that they can’t really have what they want, and they don’t trust that they can create it.
Do you ever feel that way?
Maybe you don’t think that you deserve to live a Kick-Ass Life or you feel like you are wrong for wanting it?
Perhaps it just seems too overwhelming, and you’re afraid that you’ll lose everything if you go for it?
I’m not surprised that you think these things. These are the things we are told over and over again as we grow up.
Growing up, I bet you were often made wrong for marching to the beat of your own drummer. Your ideas were constantly shot down and you were told that you can’t do what you want. It became easier to fit in and conform to your families and societies expectations, than deal with all the conflict that going your own way led too.
It’s not surprising that you harbor this belief that you can’t have what you want!!! For a good part of your life this is exactly what you experienced.
I guarantee that this is what’s keeping you stuck in your rut right now.
What would happen if you DID believe that you COULD have what you want in your life and you knew that you could pull it off?
I bet that you would not hesitate to go for it. There would be no question of time, money, or all the other excuses that people use for not creating a life that they WANT to live.
Instead of saying “I can’t do it”, you’d be saying “Let’s get started!?” and “Who wants to help me?”.
I’ll let you in on a little secret- You can live the life you want to live and you can create it for yourself right now!
And I am going to help you if you’ll let me.
The Create Your Kick-Ass Life in 2011 group program is a great place to get the guidance and support that will guarantee that you are successful. It’s the perfect combination of lessons to help you get clear, confidant and focused, and the ongoing support hat you need to successfully start living a life that you are excited about.
The program gets started on Monday, February 7th 2011.
So, if you’re ready to start believing in yourself and your dreams again, sign up for the Create Your Kick-Ass Life in 2011program and I will help you create a life that fits you perfectly.
You can get all the details for the program here: https://defythebox.com/create-your-kick-ass-life-in-2011/
This makes it easy to figure out
Posted by: | CommentsI know that I have been doing a lot of talking about the Create Your Kick-Ass Life in 2011 group program.
It get’s underway next week, so there is still time to get in on it if you like.
I thought I would change things up a bit and offer you this video instead a another post about it.
I hope you like it!
(If you listen carefully you can hear my cat Spike attacking my other cat Tispy. It’s one of his favorite things to do.)
But I Want to Sing!!!
Posted by: | CommentsI’ve been ignoring my blog for a few weeks.
Sorry about that!
I’ve really missed writing here, but all my brain power has been taken up working on the info page for my new group program. It’s called Create Your Kick-Ass Life in 2011 and I am very excited about. It has morphed into something quiet spectacular and I am really excited to share it with you.
But that will have to wait for just a few more days.
I just had this really cool experience that I want to share with you. I’ll admit that I’m really over tired right now, but not in a cranky sort of way, it’s more of an excited, satisfied felling, like after you’ve been up all night having hot sex. (Unfortunately that is not why I am tired.) My cat Tipsy woke me up at 5 AM with some kitty love and I couldn’t get back to sleep because I was struck by some inspiration for the Create Your Kick-Ass Life info page.
Anyway-back to my story.
I’m chillaxin’ and listening to Pandora on my head phones while I finish up my work. This is different for me because I usually like it quiet, but tonight I’m listening to the Nora Jones station and this song called Breath by Anna Nalick comes on and I start singing along.
This song is truly beautiful and as I sing along I can feel it resonating through my being. Next thing I know, I am caught up in a big wave of emotion and tears are streaming down my face, and I begin to get choked up. I turn my focus inside to see what is going on for me, and what I feel is this longing to sing.
It felt like singing is something that I can’t have.
MMMMM…..interesting!
Who says I can’t sing??
Apparently I do.
If I am honest with myself, I recognize that signing is something that I always want to do, but for some reason I hold myself away from it.
It wasn’t always that way. I used to sing all the time when I was little. My Dad had an amazing voice and we used to sing together. I sang in school and my friends invited me to sing in their church with them. I even sang a song for my friend at her wedding.
A some point singing became something that made me feel really vulnerable. I became afraid to sing in public and in front of people. Then I didn’t sing at all anymore. It became something that ” I can’t do”.
I miss it!
I want to sing and I want to feel good about doing it! I’m going to reclaim my voice. In my Kick-Ass Life I sing out loud and clear without fear and it feels good!
Although, when I say that I can feel the fear in the pit of my stomach. I’ll work through it.
I will be inviting you all to join me for Karaoke sometime soon.
