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Aug
25

How to Stay Focused on Your Kick-Ass Life

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I don’t know about you, but I’m finding it really challenging to stay focused on how Kick-Ass my life actually is, when I’m being bombarded with all the fearful messages that are flying around in the media lately. I understand that we are facing some big challenges, and things are shifting and changing quickly, but to tell you the truth—This is a good thing!

It is pretty obvious that the way we have been living is deeply unsatisfying for a lot of people…….that’s why you’re here, right?  The status quo isn’t working for you and you want to live a more meaningful, fun, satisfying life.

I think this desire runs deep in all human beings and in order to shift things for the highest good of all mankind, we need to shake things up and do things differently, and that is exactly what I feel is happening right now. People are feeling the pressure to take action to make their lives better, the time for tolerating oppression and all the shit that is not in alignment with your inner being is over. People everywhere are questioning archaic oppressive structures and empowering themselves to take action, it’s a beautiful thing really.

I’m of the opinion that now more than ever the world needs people who are tuned into their purpose and sharing what only they can share with the world. YOU have a unique perspective and piece of the puzzle and now IS the time to bring it forward.  The world needs what you have to offer!!!! Believe that!

So how do you not get bogged down in fear and worry with all the turmoil that is happening?  The trick is to stay focused and centered in your truth, and to keep moving towards how you want your life to be. It is common to hunker down in times like these, but now is the perfect time to keep moving forward and heading towards your dreams.

Even if society as we know it shifts and changes, you can still live a Kick-Ass Life. (If your thinking that going after your Kick-Ass Life is a selfish or foolish endeavor when things are so uncertain, then we need to talk about the importance of living your purpose and how to bust through that fear.)

Here are a few things that you can do to keep from getting bogged down in the drama and paralyzed by fear and worry.

1. Stop watching the news!!!  Or at least take it in very small doses from non-hysterical sources. 6 hours of CNN a day is not helpful, and don’t get me started on Fox News!  The media is trying to influence you to conform to their way of thinking. They want you to be afraid and to feel powerless. It makes you much easier to manipulate.

2. Have a daily practice to connect with your heart and center yourself on a daily basis. Mediation is good, a quiet walk without the headphones blaring, some plain old quiet time to sit for a minute and relax. Do whatever you need to be quiet ad slow down so you can actually here yourself think, and connect to what your heart is asking for.

3. Look for things that are Kick-Ass. Spend time everyday appreciating your life. Notice the beautiful flowers, feel the warm sun on your skin and bask in the juicy good feeling of these things.  The Daily Kick-Ass List is something that I created to help my clients with this. I have included it in the Leah recommends section below.

4. Focus your attention on what you DO want to happen.  Don’t get caught up in the drama of bitching, moaning, and complaining about how sucky things are. The more you talk about the things that aren’t working for you the more energy that you are giving to them.  If you only do one thing from this list-Do this- Learn to focus your attention from what you don’t like to what you do want.  Your focus and attention is something that you can actually control. Shift your attention to what you want to see happen and look for solutions to the problems rather than just getting pissed off, worried, or talking about how stupid the Senate is being to everyone you know on FB.

5. Look for evidence of your abundance! I know right now people are worried about $$$$. Make a habit of looking for evidence of your abundance. Things like- “Hey-I found a penny!”, “My friend fed me a wonderful meal!” and  “In this moment I have everything I need” go a long way to boosting your ability to attract more abundance into your life.  I like to meditate on these thoughts- “ The Universe prospers me”  and “ The Universe provides me with everything that I need, life is good.”

6. Focus on the things that make your life meaningful, and that you are interested in and do more of them!!!! Do I need to say anymore about this?

Dreams

7. Talk about your dreams and how you want to feel in your life. The more time you spend basking in this juicy energythe bigger it will become, and the stronger the signal is that you will be sending out into the Universe. Imagine how powerful it would be if everyone in the world did this? WoowZza!!!

Pick a few of these tips out and give them a whirl, then take a minute to let me know how they are working for you.

As always, I love to hear what is going on in that head of yours, so share your thoughts in the comments below.

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Feb
02

This makes it easy to figure out

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I know that I have been doing a lot of  talking about the Create Your Kick-Ass Life in 2011 group program.

It get’s underway next week, so there is still time to get in on it if you like.

I thought I would change things up a bit and offer you this video instead a  another post about it.

I hope you like it!

(If you listen carefully you can hear my cat Spike attacking my other cat Tispy. It’s one of his favorite things to do.)

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Jan
10

Noticing the Shift

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For as long as I can remember I have loved the color red!

This love affair started about 25 years ago when I was 20 and decided to dye my hair red. I thought that having red hair made me more mysterious & wild, and I liked being thought of as a ‘fiery redhead’.

Red quickly became my signature color and I incorporated it into all aspects of my life. I wore lots of red and black clothing, drove a red car (Boy do I miss that car!) and it was a no brainer what color anything to buy me for a gift. I even incorporated red into my business image.

I was set- it was me and red in love forever!!!

Then an interesting thing happened. When I turned 45 I started thinking about dying my hair blue.

I had this undeniable urge to mix things up in a big way and I kept coming back to the blue hair thing.

“Could I really do it?!?”

Of course I could, but I kept wondering who I would be without my red hair.

I decided to go for it. It was scary but I dyed my hair back to its original brown color and added some beautiful Blue Velvet and Pimpin’ Purple chunky streaks to the front.

Wowzza!!  My new hair was totally awesome. I felt like a Rockstar that night when I went out to a party and showed it off. Everyone loved it.

This was the real me!!! I was letting my freak flag fly and it felt good.

Over the next few weeks I started noticing that my new funky hair color matched so many of my things. It matched the cool sweater that I had bought the year before but never really wore much. It was the exact same color as my new winter coat and gloves that I had bought a month earlier. Matter of fact I had lots of cloths that matched my hair. It was the same color as my car!

My how things had changed!

On so many levels I had unconsciously chosen to leave the red behind. It just took a while to consciously get on board with it.

It makes me curious about the other places in my life that I have grown and changed but I am not totally conscious of them yet.

This all confirms to me the importance of being present in your life and checking in with your preferences. We all change, and grow and expand. The trick is to keep up with it!

Is there anything in your life that has shifted?

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Nov
01

Inviting Your Inner-Freak Out to Play

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How do you get to know your Inner-Freak?

One way is to invite it out to play!

It’s sad and lonely when you lock it away.

That is exactly what so many of you have been doing for far too long!  Now is the perfect time to make friends with your Inner-Freak and allow it to teach you all it knows about what will make your life Kick-Ass.

Here are some simple ways to make friends with your Inner-Freak;

  1. Give yourself permission to be different and go your own way. Your Inner-Freak knows exactly what is unique and special about you, but because you have ignored it for so long, it needs your permission to come out and show you the way.
  2. Break out of the daily grind and boring routines buy doing one thing different everyday. Your Inner-Freak hates your mindless routine! It’s so boring! Shake things up a bit everyday, even if it’s something as small as driving to work a different way or switching up the order that wash in the shower. Keep yourself engaged and interested.
  3. Create quiet space to connect with your Inner-Freak. Your Inner-Freak has a wealth of information to share, but it is vitally important that you create some space to listen to it. Sit quietly everyday, go for a walk without the i-pod, journal, make art, or whatever feels good to you.
  4. Expand your horizons. Go to Burning Man, check out a cool new Meetup Group and meet some new people, do some research on the web about the place you always wanted to go, or explore a new part of the city. See what catches your eye. This is your Inner-Freak showing you the way.
  5. Give Yourself Permission to explore everything that is appealing to you – especially if you told yourself you can’t or shouldn’t do it. Let’s be clear, I’m not talking about going out and drinking a whole bottle of tequila. I do encourage you to give yourself permission to explore your dream of being a Dula or giving up your business in order to take that teaching job that sounds really appealing. If something is appealing to you explore it and try it on for sizeThe fact that it is appealing is your Inner-Freak telling you that there is something there for you.

Try a few of these things out and see what happens!

If you want to learn more about letting your Inner-Freak out to play, tune into My Kick-Ass Dream Life Radio today at 3 PM EST, and get in on the conversation.

If you can’t make the live show you can listen to the recording here: http://www.blogtalkradio.com/my-kick-ass-dream-life-/2010/11/03/invite-your-inner-freak-out-to-play

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Today I want to continue the conversation about rules.

I decided that I would play around with my IMovie software and make a video for you.

This is what I came up with. I hope that you enjoy it.

( The date for the class mentioned in this video has been changed to March 4th at 12:30-1:30 PM EST  get more info. about it here )

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